"Sometimes I feel like if my W had OM it might be easier for us to try to reconcile. Bust the A and then get on to working on the M. Seems to pretty much be the way it goes. "I am grateful that my sources still tell me there is no OM but it makes me scratch my head as to why she still cannot talk to me. I'm not sure I have seen another sitch here where the W has not talked to H for so long when there isn't OM in the picture?"
My wife and I still talk and are in the same house. I feel ya though. It has been 4 months now and we have made no progress. I am in the same boat and am almost thinking there HAS to be another man even though ALL of my sources tell me no. It is very frustrating
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling