I agree with both PDT and Allen. Arguing points, no matter how rationally, just made my H dig his feet in deeper as to him feeling our marriage was at an end. When I stopped doing that, it went from him apartment hunting to him moving back into our bedroom and stopping the D talk all together. Obviously (if you read my thread) it's not where it should be yet, but at least there has been progress. YOU will feel much better too!
