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[flowmom]

Sorry, don't have time to repond to replies, but THANK YOU for the input.

So I replied to him:

Hi H

I'm not sure what you're asking...can you please clarify?

Flowmom

and he replied:

There are financial accountant type people who help couples divide assets, pensions, etc. and also come up with child and spousal support agreements. We could do this ourselves but I think getting some help here would be a much better idea. I would need such an agreement before I could approach a bank and ask how much I'm eligible for mortgage wise.

Thx

H

I am confused. Is he asking the we do a DIY legal separation agreement with some professional input on financial stuff? Not get any legal advice? Not use a mediator (which is what he wanted to do in January)? I don't understand.

Alice, it sounds like you went to such a person with your H...any insight as to how a financial guy would play a role in this?