Exposed finally,,limbo land

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Her BF is totally on the “She’s adamant about her decision”, and is not going to be of any help at this point. W is picking women around the community that I don’t know to befriend, and will have one of them serve me. She refuses to have any interactions with her dad, MIL, or Brother(east coast). My family even if they could get to her to talk, she would not listen and try to run out of the room, house, and city.

Her dad had an affair that wrecked the family, yet stuck in M for 8-10 years being miserable, even went to IC, but no help, and I think he see’s this as the same, if W comes back, the home will be miserable,” she’s a grown woman”, and can make own decisions. MIL’s first M was killed by XH A/MLC, which she thinks is still going on because he’s on his 4th M since her. W will not talk to her step mom on it, period.

I will try to approach her BF with stories, and see what reaction I get. MIL already has and says, only person you can change is yourself.