D9 doesn't want to go strawberry picking this morning. Wants to stay home. Kids asked if I was going too. Said I didn't think I was invited. Probably the wrong thing to say. D9 asked W if I was going and she said "No. He is not going." D9 stayed home with me. I have to leave soon to go to the bank and meet some friends for the festival.

W & I sent to our joint back a few days ago to take my name off of our joint account, but found out that we couldn't since I am the primary member. She has to open a new account. Since I have my own account now, I gave her back the debit card for our account and told her it was hers now. She immediately cut it up in front of me. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. I took her off of some credit cards and asked her to cut them up too. Eye for an eye.

I feel like the tension is building a bit again. She says she has been depressed because of what we have been/are going through, but she is the one calling the shots. This is her decision without even giving the R a fighting chance. Never wanted to work on it at all.

Thanks to all for your help.