No, I completely understand your need for face to face contact and closure. Unfortuantely, I don't think you'll get it from H. You've gone thru this before where you'll meet but nothing ever gets accomplished b/c all he can say is "I don't know". If he agrees to meet u after this request, then great, but I wouldn't get your hopes up to get too much clocure. I think it's just going to come down to what you want and when you are ready to move on, b/c H is not going to give u that ok. It really is hard to know when to move on, especially when the future looks bleak. I don't know what I would do in your situation. In some ways, it seems like H is trying by getting help for himself, but like u said, he hasn't done anything to help the your relationship - it has just continued to detoriate these past 6 months. Since my situatuon has changed again, I've been really thinking about the D as well. I know I will never have any peace from H until that happens (yes, he will still be in my life b/c of S, but at least we won't have to to play these "I'm w/ u, I'm not w/ u" games). But then it also goes back to the fact that I want to keep S away from his custody for as long as possible, so why push the D. This is tough, huh? There is no easy answer, but those are just the things to consider for u too when you make that decision.
Well, I hope the yardwork went well yesterday. Any plans for the weekend?
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
