Pup - I definitely don't want my daughter not to have a relationship with her father - I was simply trying to protect myself. I was just frustrated because facilitating the contact with daughter involves communicating with him and was hampering my attempts to go dark.
Allen - I couldn't read the protection phase document you sent - the link isn't working on my computer. I went to Penny Tupy's site to try and find it, but couldn't.
Bluestar - Your story is inspiring - just looked at it. I wouldn't say my H came back wanting to work on things. He wanted to talk and "lay everything out on the table" - I think he was trying to justify what he did. Never said he wanted to work things out. More sorry he got caught at this point . . . though I guess I didn't take the time to fully hear him out. I was so stressed and upset at that point that I didn't think I could take him telly me he didn't love me anymore.
