I bet you feel like you were the one giving all the time. He doesn't know how to ask for what he needs because he doesn't think he's worth it.
yes, i did feel like i gave all the time and received little in return. i think that's why i have such a difficult time with this concept.
i would have thought that the co-dependent would do a lot of giving because he/she is always trying to win approval from others.
if my h is reading, he was worth it to me.
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professional
want a better paying job. work smarter. continue networking and lead by example. i have established a good reputation. need to keep the momentum going. school is another option.
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financial
i am saving like crazy. working with my financial planner to make sure i don't overspend. but in general, i'm pretty good.
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physical
i love squash. i do want to be a better player. there is a team tournament in january of 2011 that i want to be a part of. goal: to be asked to join a team for this tournament. i wasn't good enough in the past but maybe this year?
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intellectual
i have to think about this one. i want to improve my finance skills.
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spiritual
this one is tough. i have not really been a spiritual person.
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social
keeping in touch with my friends. so far so good. the phone book in my cell is getting bigger.
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emotional
i want to ease the anger. with time, i know it will happen.
this site has helped me center myself. i feel like i am getting to a point where i can detach. i am making head way and have new goals in life. i want to achieve my dreams. i can't sit in this toilet bowl and be going around in circles.
there is work to do - the work is to achieve what i want in life.
