Are there any women in the approximate age range 40-65 who want sex 5-10 times per week? Or are there any who would at least put up with a partner who wanted it that often? And I'm talking about imaginative, erotic, tantric sexual massage, energetic, fantasy-enhanced, loving, candlelight, etc., sex, not just cold mechanical frequency.
5 times a week - sure ... great passionate sex 10 times a week ... you're starting to get into the "this is a bit time consuming" category I think.
Women have heaps of things to do. Sex is only one of them. By the time we’ve worked, done the chores, fed the family, invested in the other things we like to do (hobbies/friends/family etc) making 15 – 20 hours a week available for sex is a bit of a stretch in my view. (I just don’t now how you’d fit it in!)
I’ve been seeing a man for several months who is v HD and we have imaginative, erotic, trantric, energetic, etc sex most days (and sometimes several times a day) but there are times when one or both of us are just too busy or too tired after slogging it out in the real world all day to devote the kind of energy that’s required to maintain that really intimate sexual encounter.
The other point I’d make is that the erotic, fantasy-enhanced, loving part only comes with time, trust and practice. I’m pretty open minded, but it’s taken me quite a long time to get to the stage I am now where I’m really comfortable making my mind and my body open to the amazing intimacy that’s available in a good sexual relationship.
Could I sustain this for years and years … you betcha.
To get high numbers you do "quickies" 5 to 10 minute jaunts that pleasure both partners. Once in a while or on the weekend you do a longer session. Thats how you get a high sex rate.
