That is why I have not actually went about filing for divorce, as it is not something I am willing or want to do. I have dropped all talk of divorce for a little while now, and plan on not mentioning it again.
Right now, I guess for me the boundaries would be obviously that all contact with the OW would be cut off. That is something I absolutely cannot deal with. I am sure there are other boundaries and I will definitely have to think on that. Right now, I just hope we can back to the point where it seemed possible for us.
