I found out last week just how damaging it can be to have a simple conversation with my WH. We had not talked in 5 weeks. I had to call him about pertinent medical information. The talk was very civil, contained. He asked me how I was, Blah, Blah. I think I handled it very well, but it left me a nervous, whiny wreck x 3 days. Speaking for myself, Dark is better. Just disappear from his life as much as you possibly can, and focus on yourself. Unless it is a matter of life or death, I plan to let our D's transmit any msgs. in the future.
