I meant when she is away (which is now through last week) should I ignore him when he contacts ME or allow him to be in contact with me (answer if he calls/emails). He claims he "can't stop" being in contact with her because he is "enchanted." Yes I've said repeatedly that I'm tired of hearing him talk so casually about her or telling me her "attributes" but it's like he's trying to make a case to my why she is "better" for him.
He does this because you ALLOW it, Antonia. There's a big difference between effectively enforcing a boundary, and weakly telling him you're "tired" of him talking about her.
Look up Coach's old thread about Boundaries for some specifics on how to do this. These conversations are absolutely KILLING your self-esteem!!!
