The heart of the matter

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Sounds good Geronimo,

Here is something we are told here all the time that I am only just now starting to actually do...

Forget about your WIFE. She is not your wife anymore. Try to think of her as just another hot single Mom that you might want to date. Which means that you know nothing about her past and that is a good thing. Be funny, be light, be ATTRACTIVE.