Yes I have, fb is blocked now completely. I do have new developments OM1 and his W called. He said there was nothing romantic going on, he said that he sees how she played him and his family and realized she is crazy.

Him and W are now going to file a terroristic threatning warrant against her. She really has been on a major path of self destruction. OM1 his W and now and even her boss will either sign affadavits and or testify on my behalf.

I feel very very sorry for W as I am detaching. I am watching my wife self destruct and I am beginning to wonder if she even really wanted to be a mother or a wife??

She is now resorted to acting out her teenage years again by going out partying, dating men, all the while making very stupid decisions that honestly benefit no one but the teenager within.

I am now at a point, where I will pull no punches. She sent me some threats, and ironically these same threats her bosses son said she told him of as well.

By scaring my dad to a heartattack, or trying to make me do something stupid etc...

Now that everyone in this mess is on my side, I am about 100 percent sure I will not lose this case.

WAW still hasnt filed and likely doesnt have the money, we go back on July 15th.

I guess my questions now are of damage control and tough love.

Do I file a mental inquest on her for the homicidal threats? Do i take it up with criminal court for breaking her Assault case no contact order?

The mental inquest could be a shot to get her some real help in a hospital?

The criminal no contact will land her in jail?

I really see no choice, as it will solidify my case for my DD1, but the mental inquest could get her some help.

I am pretty sure I need to let this go for good, but I do wish for her to be in her mothers life as long as MOM can get stable and get some real help.

Thoughts?


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on