So last night, W tells me something “funny”, that her ex-sister in law (our marriage is her 2nd) just found her on Facebook and wanted to “friend” her, which she said she did (apparently, they have 1 friend in common and that’s how the SIL found her).
Then said it would be weird not to contact her ex-husband (who apparently is remarried and has a daughter), and of course my anxiety stirred up (as recontacting an ex-flame was how the A started up)…
Was glad she told me all of this but did tell her it made me feel a little uncomfortable/anxious (to which she muttered under her breath “I can’t wait until we’re over this”).
When we first got together, W’s divorce from husband #1 wasn’t yet final, and do remember some pretty heated conversations between the 2 of them over the phone as she was working to get him to sign the divorce papers. W did say she feels like being able to be back in contact with him will help her smooth things over and not “linger” for her.
Am I being hypersensitive here? Feel OK today but definitely went to bed feeling a little out of sorts…funny how when you think the anxiety/old feelings are gone, they can come back like it was yesterday.
