I cannot imagine that she is that crazy. i am so glad to have seen posts from others bc she is acting like an alien. i do not know who she is at times. i cannot imagine that someone can be that crazed to fantasize about "escaping" like that. do they think they will live happily ever after like the brady bunch?
Yep, that is the fantasy! Never underestimate its power over her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!