Originally Posted By: Babydoll
Originally Posted By: newmama
]And about letting him be the father-- well remember, BD, that he wants to be a "part time" dad. I really wish I had put this into perspective for my stbxh. Part time dads get to be with their child, well, part time! Hey, it is what he wants! SOunds harsh, but it will help set your son up for your son's reality as well, you know?


Very true! this is the part where i dont think H will accept or like. But reality is he will be a part time father. He set himself up for this! not me!


He has to accept it. It's what he chose. Too bad if he doesn't like it.