If You Forget Me #71

[mishka422]

Sounds really good K. He was loving and warm toward you, stayed with you for an hour, introduced you to EVERYONE....that is all very positive.

I don't think I could handle whatever a voice recorder picked up but if you feel it's necessary for your own peace of mind then by all means do it.

[awest1217]

Just be careful with being suspicious. He is really trying and not really hiding anything right now. He is introducing you to coworkers and trying to spend extra time with you. I completely understand the need to know because if H and I were to ever get where you are...well I would want something on his phone so I knew the contents of every text message sent, but be careful. Don't over analyze things you hear and don't hurt the trust he is starting to grow in you. Make sure you keep communication first I guess is what I am saying.

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K, ahhh.. he's back and I was going to phone you tonight! We never did get to speak hey. I am glad he was warm and loving and well, all sounds normal and nothing 'fishy'.

I dont really get the voice recorder thing, why do you need that, because he may be phoning someone/having someone in his car with him? I wonder what he would think though if he found it. He may feel pretty freaked out and wonder about your sanity and just how insecure/paranoid you feel. I would hate for you to hear something incriminating, that would be terribly sad. He does sound very cohesive with you these days and committed to your R, so I hope thats not the case sweets.

Al xxx

[MichelleLT]

So many positives! That's great that he's being so sweet and spending time with you. So positive that he introduced you to everyone as well!!!

Definitely keep that communication open. Maybe have a little boundaries talk in a bit about his perceived flirting.

[fb2]

and we spend an hor together before he started feeling dizzy...

Did you make his head spin?

the voice activated recorder ...

Sad for trust to sink so low but I think its smart to do given the sitch; I wish I was this smart when I needed to be. Finding out the truth sooner rather than later is so important; people who cheat on their spouse deserve to get busted. I'm wondering tho' at what point this sort of thing is considered "illegal" or "stalking" or whatever?

[Kalni]

I just won 2 nights at the http://www.altana.gr/accommodation.htm at a radio station competition...!!

It is a wonderful hotel on the cliff on Santorini. I am so excited!!! I hope H wants to come and wont make me find someone else...
K

[naej]

Congratulations, have a wonderful time. Surely H will go with you.
I went to Santorini, many moons ago and it was magical.Hope it works it's magic on you both.

[Lotus]

Congratulations! that is very exciting!

[AliSuddenly]

Wow! Well done. Me and bf went there and loved it! The volcano was amazing, just a shame about the 3 cruise ships in the harbour for the same few days and getting mown down by hordes of people following a number held aloft Isnt that where H proposed to you??

Looks beautiful, is that near Oia? (sp!). I do hope H wants to go too... if not.. I'M THERE!

[Kalni]

In August 2000, we went there after the 6 months split and he gave me my wedding band... 10 years later, after a 2 years split, we will be going again. I love Santorini but I dont like walking around with all the tourists etc, I love just sitting at the hotel, with the pool over the volcano, breakfast under the sun and martinis during sunset...

It is at Imerovigli, over the main town, at the best location. H said he will go, sounded excited...

He is not working today either, we are going out tonight.

Yesterday when I returned from work, he was sleeping and when he heard me come in, he invited me to bed, locked the door and we made love in the middle of the afternoon and with the kids in the living room (Ali, you have the visual with our apt)...

He feels like he missed us, the kids AND me...
K