I guess it is still possible that he is contact with her. I am not sure and I don't ask at this point. He seems to like talking with me and spending time at the house with me and the girls, but who knows maybe it is just the girls. For the most part, right now, unless I bring up something about the R or anything at all to do with the situation, he is nothing but nice and we get along great. I really have to bite my tongue anymore to not ask anything and not push him to decide what he wants. Patience is not something I am good at, especially when it so nice when he is here, and I am so sad when he leaves. I think I need to work a little harder at limiting the contact and always letting him be the one to initiate contact. I have alot to learn and hope that the mistakes that I have made up to this point haven't ruined any chance we have.
