No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

sandi,

Thanks for the suggestions. The picture sounds good. There are a number of photos I could use.

I got her the spa package last year and she hasn't ever used them. She generally doesn't like to or hasn't taken advantage of a spa. I've encouraged her, but she hasn't.

I was thinking of getting her something to do with the girls, but because she's made them the focus of everything so far, I thought I'd get her something a little more personal.

Even when we weren't in this sitch, she was hard to shop for. The only thing she ever seems interested in are handbags. She doesn't buy much clothes or anything for herself. She has no hobbies and prefers to hang out in front of the tv.

When all this first started, she went on and on about how she was going to join the gym and get a new body, etc. So I got her a track jacket and gym bag. She went to the gym once, overexerted herself and threw up in the bathroom. She never went back. The thing that bothered me was that I saw her wearing the jacket I had gotten her and I made a comment about how it looked good on her and she didn't remember how she got it.

A gift wrapped box of common sense would be nice!