How are you doing with the porn thing since you aren't having sex with your W? How long has it been since you had sex?
It's been at least 3 months and only very sporadic before that. I was doing it some, much less than before, but with no sex, it was tough. I tried to go to bed when she did and then just wanted to cuddle, but she didn't want any of that either. I was smothering her.
About a month ago I started taking the generic version of Paxil and have pretty much lost all interest, so I am doing better. This habit goes all the way back to my teens. I thought it was ok to be taking care of myself, especially if she didn't want to.
