grace, your story is inspirational. glad to hear you've come to such a positive point in you life. sometimes i am so scared of the unknown. like i keep thinking, how am i supposed to pick up the pieces of my life and move on?
thanks for the piece about not blaming too much. i am just too good at that. and good to know that one thing isn't the kicker. last time i backslid, i moped about it for days so not going to do that this time. i'm human after all!
and jack - i *think i get what you're saying that sometimes a little backslide is ok. one good thing that came out of all this mess is i told H he is my best friend. H response 'wow, you never said that to me before.' i couldn't believe it but he was right.
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Once you have the confidence to know that whatever happens, you have the courage and strength to take care of whatever needs taking care of, the fear just shrinks.