I would love to talk to DB coach problem is I just cant afford it now.Found out W is filing on 7/20 so I need to save up for L.
At my wits end right now. Seems like more I detatch, GAL, and spend quality time with the kids the colder and more withdrawn she gets. Dont even get a hello when I get home now. Only talks to me when she needs something for the kids. Keeps telling me I had nothing to do with her for years and she is done fighting for marriage. Its frustrating because she never once told me she was unhappy or was thinking of D. In hindsight I can see she tried but in a very roundabout way that I never picked up on. Also see how we both were terrible at communacating our needs to each other.
So now my question is, her biggest complaint is I never did anything with her and was wrapped up in my own little world. How do I improve on those things without persuing her?
ME:47 WAW:45 SON:19 SON:12 M:21 yrs T: 22 yrs BOMB: 3/26/10 EA/PA apr-may 2010 Current: no OM (I think) moved out sept 2010 D filed D w/b final 4/6/2011
