Dan, when they re-write marital history, there's stuff in there about how you were mostly this <negative> way, never <did this positive thing or two> and how you made her feel <somehow bad that justifies treating you like crap>.
That is unless you really keep asking for it, and then you get the laundry list and the 'I don't think I ever loved you' kind of crap.
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