Have professional pictures taken of the girls and put in a very pretty frame. Well, you may not have time for that....but anything that is not about you & her as a "couple" and just the kids would be safe.
A gift certificate to a spa or beauty shop treatment....something special like that.
Tickets to Disney World(gift for all of you).
I would stay away from the traditional bouquet of flowers b/c that's just too "easy" and she would appreciate something that took some thought behind it.\
No jewelry! Not unless it is something....like involves the girls birthstones. But don't include yours & hers.
Is there anything she could attend that would be for just her and the girls? It would show her that you aren't trying to push yourself on her "time" with them and you're being unselfish with that gift.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
