thanks Jack.

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However YOU seem to realize it is not the best thing to do.
yeah, that's the saddest part is i KNOW that these things only hurt when it's out of control. even as i'm saying stuff, i'm like shut up! to myself!

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You.
lol. you got that right.
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You no longer worry about the source of that fear and a whole another world of options opens up.
would love when this happens. need to work on detaching again.