Originally Posted By: Seeing Red
SS, BD, glad you enjoyed the rant! smile

I put him through grad school. We put off having kids ... We rarely saw each other. But we had a goal. And we almost made it.

It's been a tough lesson, but she was right. I got lazy and painted myself into a corner. It won't happen again...


I thought I wrote this!!! I think I backed down and let his life and goals and school take over OUR dreams... and now he may see me as unmotivated or weak etc. I own two of my own businesses and H loved when I would be productive and busy and on the go...

I regret not making things 50/50 during his schooling... I shouldve! I dont think he sees the sacrifices... instead he sees that he has grown, and i am here???