Did for losts of things, but always defended myself as not being selfish, but was too busy with other responsibilities. In the intimacy area, I told her I thought she was ok with it since she never said "no" and enjoying it since she got "O" 80% of the time. She said that her body just responded to what I was doing to it. I never apologized for making her feel like "a piece of meat". That makes me feel sick. I was giving her what I wanted and what I thought she wanted, but it wasn't what she needed. It was more sex than making love.