Originally Posted By: DanF Something else. Being a man, but can that work without me apologizing in terms of her biggest issue? My selfishness.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails Yes, you can. Own it, verbally -- ONCE. Maybe twice. And then just LIVE OUT YOUR CHANGES BEFORE HER, never commenting on it again, other than a "thank you" if SHE notices it, and compliments you on it.
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Puppy
Sorry puppy, but now I am confused again.
I thought everyone told me not to apologize.
Are you saying above that I should tell her these things (apologize), just once, and verbally, to validate her feelings and let her know that I get it now?
