No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[any chance?]

I would suggest a gift for the two of you. Give her a card with a nice note that sets aside a day, a night, or a weekend with just the two of you doing something you have enjoyed in the past. No heavy converstation, just some alone time. No R talk, just some good times and smiles. Depends on what the two of you like - dayhiking and picnic? dinner and a show in the city? beer and paintball? Just something to get the two of you away from the day to day, and make sure it does not devolve into unending R talk. Put all the BS on the shelf for a day and get to know each other again. Cheap, easy and mutually beneficial. Just a thought.