Not sure. I try to make her feel better about me by doing things with the kids. She will appreciate that. Continue my 180's in helping around the house and not pursuing her at all. Be nice. Converse a little with her when she initiates a conversation.
I don't ask her to lunch, but am available if she asks. Usually only on weekends or off days becuase we work 1hr apart. She is off 2 & 1/2 days per week in the summer, so theoretically, she could bring the kids and have lunch together close to my work. I don't think that is going to happen.
I don't initiate any contact with her, but let her own tension build.
I don't know what else.
I just got an e-mail from EAOM's wife. Their situation is totally nuts right now. She thinks they are still talking. They talk about that situation in their counseling sessions and he says he doesn't have to chase my W because "she'll take him whenever he is ready" and other crap like that. Probably just trying to get her goat, but I just don't know what to think.
If that is the case, I need to get more evidence, but really don't know how at this point. She guards her phone with her life. I used to check it in the middle of the night, but everything was almost always deleted. I did open her last phone bill and there were no calls, but I can't see any texting info. Now that she is in the other room, I am afraid to go in there at night and wake her up trying to get the phone. Plus, she can still call from her work. This guy was introduced to her by her best friend, who she works with. This lady is a real gossip hound and calls my W aboyt 4 times a day. It is f-ing ridiculous. Me and the kids call her Dee-de-dee, like Carlos Mencia!
