What would I need to do differently if there is no affair. The longer this goes the less likely it appears that there is one. Again, I'll get some intel on where she is going but something doesn't seem to fit.
Perhaps this really is just a growing friendshipo with this girlfriend and the guy at work is a coincidence. There is a huge piece missing. The reason I ask is that, if it turns out there isn't one, will my dropping the rope completely adversely affect her ability to come out of this cleanly.
Even if there is not an affair, she is moving in directions distant from the marriage (you). An affair would just be another symptom of her dissatisfaction with the M. Either way, it is important for you to understand what she is looking for that she doesn't have in the M.
Try to piece it together by really reflecting on what she has told you. What are her consistent complaints? What about you has she criticized? What have y'all fought about? What do her 'new ways' indicate she is looking for now?
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