Great advice guys. Thanks for setting me straight. I will not give this apology.
Any advice on what I could consider "progress" or what goals to set in this situation? We are generally nice to each other and don't fight, so not fighting is not progress.
Any phusical contact like a touch, hug or kiss from her? That doesn't seem reasonable to expect at the moment. How do I know if this is working? WAit for her to ask aobut the R?