he's like you have changed so much but why couldn't you have realized this before.
I received almost the exact same line. "Oh you changed so much, why couldn't you have been this way before.?"
Please see this for what it is. We live in the here and now. You are a changed person in the here and now and it's obviously positive because he is asking "why not before?"
For whatever F'd up reason, he is still going to look for something negative in this positive change. Don't let this rattle you and please DO NOT own a bunch of his sh!t.
Bottom line is...
You are changing for the better. If he want's to play this bullsh!t card so be it. That is out of your control, just don't start owning too much of the blame here.
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like i was a nice guy who got screwed over.
Boo F@cking hoo! Who's choice was it to bail? Most of them thrive off of playing the victim.
Yes take a look inward, change when it is needed and this is totally your call as to what, however don't take ownership of MLC BS. It's his.
