Thanks, Abbey. Guess it is all about time and patience, probably lots of both. I do need to get beyond the point where I assume she is going to walk back out whenever she has a set back or a sleepless night. Kind of walking on eggshells during what is hopefully a transition zone. I need to find solid ground where we can both work on moving our R forward. Right now the ground under my feet feels very, very mushy and unstable.....


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012