Thanks, Abbey. Guess it is all about time and patience, probably lots of both. I do need to get beyond the point where I assume she is going to walk back out whenever she has a set back or a sleepless night. Kind of walking on eggshells during what is hopefully a transition zone. I need to find solid ground where we can both work on moving our R forward. Right now the ground under my feet feels very, very mushy and unstable.....
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