Oh and do note that Piano and Gatsby both (and me too) had soft hearts about wanting our Hs to get to be with their babies as much as possible. I point it out because you may PLAN to only let your H visit for a short while but once your son is born, all that goes out the window! And you know, you might want to let him see him a lot at first and THEN say "ok we really need to stick to the parenting plan now." I hope I didn't confuse you too much!!
I totally agree! I'm letting WH do whatever right now. But at some point (probably after his family reunion which ends July 6) we will need to have a plan.
I guess just see how it goes, BD, since you don't know what things will be like after the birth! But I'd imagine it'd be more of the same since he's so present now.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
