Your sexual expectations of a woman ARE reasonable. It depends on the woman, there are a great many women who will want a sex life similar to the way you want it. Currently your wife is not one of them. I'm sure the question before throwing it all away is there ANYTHING that can be done to create desire in your own wife for the act.
It hurts that sex can be viewed as a chore, and if you don't mention it they will literally forget about it. On DB Forums and other forums we found out many such women actually had no sex drive, the other half where cheating so they had no need for sex within their marriage.
I've read alot of your thread, probably not all your postings. Have you looked into hormone levels? Various aphrodisiacs?
I'm like you, I want my woman to want near the same rate and levels of experiences as you, and it should not be a chore to her. Participation in the act should make her feel more alive and even energized.
