Gotcha, This isn't going to fair well with her. If it happens. She persue and will try make me feel guilty about it.
Plus, I do not think my showers gets that cold.
Inappropriate guilt. Reserve guilty feelings for the things you do which are WRONG. Not having sex with your W, who is divorcing you, is not WRONG. She might not like it - and? Tell her to put her Big Girl Panties BACK ON b/c you are not going to service her.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08