Right now I don't want to talk about anything serious in person. If you have anything constructive to say please put it in writing.
If we both want a healthier marriage we both need to learn how to do that - I will be attending family therapy and doing the necessary readings... I am determined to be an adult about our situation.
Am I happy about the rebelliousness and the secret keeping?
No, its blantantly destructive to a healthy household and I dont' want it in our home.
Am I going to stop you? No... I am going to be an adult and do my 50% of the work like I should be.
I don't want to talk. We don't know how to repair this on our own, few people do know how.. that's why they have professionals who know how and do a great job... When my car is broken I take it to an auto mechanic, when my leg is broken I take that to a medical professional... our marriage is broken.. that needs a family therapist... Netiher one of us are so I will be taking our marriage to a family therapist.
I will be making regular visits to learn how to improve our marriage.
When I am comfortable with you attending I will let you know... But right now I will be going on my own...
