The journey begins

[ClingingToHope]

Actually, I haven't done the disclosure/discovery stuff. Her L is pushing for it. Mine is saying why bother. I don't want to do it because it'll take a couple of hours and cost another $400-$500.

IRS called today. They are going to start taking $80 a month from STBXW's accounts as of August to begin to pay off the $5,400 we owe in taxes.

I'll send STBXW $40 a month until we pay it off. It'll be interesting to see what she does. As long as we owe the IRS we won't get refunds. They'll just keep them. That'll be big next year if we're divorced because she's likely to get a refund -- all of the mortgage interest -- and I'm likely to owe. My second job doesn't take taxes out and I'll have to pay in.

So they'd seize her refund.