How to tell the kids

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'm against this approach.

- too supplicating

- too many WORDS, instead of ACTION: SHOW her your changes, don't TELL her about them

- legally, I wouldn't want to put confessions of guilt/fault in writing; if I were going to do them, I would do them verbally

If you want her to know you "get it," and are no longer selfish, then SHOW her.

Puppy