My sitch continued, not sure why original thread

[BeingMe]

If she is screaming for you to move on, then I suggest you do so, with a polite, "you got it, lady." You don't fight her with words or being in her face. She is telling you what she wants ... go do it. That is a 180. Disappear from her, not the kids. Disengage from any contact with her. There was another poster (the H of a WAW like you) on this board who had some of the same issues as you, detaching, etc. They are now talking reconciliation. She is so happy with the changes he has made. Here is his link if you're interested: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1939299&page=37

It is long, however, but you'll be able to see how, over time, he changed his thinking, and I see a really bright future for them.

One thing you should keep in mind, SOTR, if your WAW ever does come back, please make it a condition that she gets a D beforehand. Don't take her back as a married woman. It's up to you, but I would make that a condition. Of course, who knows how long this process will take, but I thought I would throw that out there. You will be able, then, to ask for her hand in marriage in the way it should be done. We women like that.

Again, what Coach says. Boundaries.