c. Your husband wants to put you in his pocket.. he expects you to be there where HE wants, HOW he wants and WHEN he wants.. this is demeaning and emotinoally destructive...
All you hae to do to avoid being put in that place is NOT be WHERE he wants, WHEN he wants, and HOW he wants...
this doens't mean you ignore him or don't cooperate, but you do it on YOUR TERMS.. be FAIR, but maintain your dignity...
He doens't NEED a reply five minutes after sending an email, that just makes you look like a doding child and does NOT earn hsi RESPECT
RESPECT is the line here... emailing someone immediately after they email you when they are treating you like CRAP disrespects YOU... take your time, think on what he has to say...