Ok I know its a hypothetical senario, the circumstances are not the same, but I do know my wife. This sort of relates to my sex thread. I know its reading into thins, and it may not happen , but as I said, this is how my wife has been in the past.

When my wife gets back from her trip Sunday, I know she will of sort of missed me. Given my 180's and she is starting to frenquent my "man cave" where I am living. Also she is texting and sometimes calling me every so often since she left.
I already planned to look my best. I have already shaved off my sideburns, something I grown since before we met. My W has alwasys dislike them. I also plan to go get some colonge to smell nice. It's something I have never sported.
I will wait for her to come to me and tell me how her trip was. I will listen and actively interact to her conversation. I am sure she may bring up the D papers, but I will divert the topic something else and keep things positive.

She may want to initate "sex" again. According to her it is sex not making love. I am not concerned anymore what she calls it. At this point should If things get "hot and heavy" , Should I and let the hormones and urge build in her or should I just "have sex" as it somehow appears to be something she needs to bond our relationship.

If it does happen, I don't think I could resist. I just wanted some thoughts.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10