a. When he sends communication.. do NOT panic.. that often results in behaviour on instinct.. instincts are NOT HELPFUL when you are trying to save a marriage... As John Cusack says in High Fidelity : "My Inctincts have sh|t for brains!"
b. Dont' reply right away.. hold off for an hour or so.. texts and emails are better to communicate iwth him right now than in person... a lot of emotions rushing about...
