That also another thing I was wondering. What do you say to people? For acquiantances they obviously probably won't really ask questions. But I have been getting a lot of "what happened?", etc. from people. I have told 3 very close friends and family more of the details but for everyone else I don't really want to talk about it.

For acquitances I have been saying "We are currently seperated".

For closer friends that have more questions (one friend asked where we were living), I have just been saying "We have been seperated since the end of May. I'm not sure where he is livings because I have only talked to him once or twice since then. I don't really have much else to say about it."

I just really don't feel like discussing it to be honest. It's very painful and no one really knows the whole background of what he is doing so its just pointless because I feel like if I start even talking about it a little my anger will come out and I will end up bashing him somehow and that could get back to him so I would rather just not discuss it at all.

The reunion is in 3 weeks.