Ah, sorry, misread. I think you should act like someone who is separated. You don't have to say anything to anyone, unless asked, to which you could give a short answer that you are taking a break from each other, or something like that. If he wants to pretend then that's for him to try and you to reject. Not so? When is the reunion?
I am still married, for various reasons. I am no longer "in love", but I have no interest in romance. I have other things that I am concerned about, and going through a S, D, and moving to some place on my own will not be a good thing now. Timing is everything.
Whereas, you are young and have your whole life ahead. I know you still love your H, but I have learned in my life that love is only a small part of a R. It is the part that holds it together, but if all you have is the glue, and nothing to stick together such as, respect, friendship, companionship, intimacy, etc., then there is no point, IMHO.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
