SillyOld, he hasn't described the lack of sex as "hurtful". He says he doesn't like it. I'm just not 100% sure I believe him. I can't help thinking, if he *really* wanted it, and if it *really* mattered to him, he would go for it!
I think he does love me, in that weird way that LD people can love. I'm beginning to suspect I really should pick up that book about the five love languages - I suspect he and I have a serious disconnect in that area.
SSMguy, thanks for the remarks. It DOES make me feel better.
There are other things about DH that I'm not thrilled about, but the lack of sex is the worst. I could live with his not liking to travel or go out. If he would open up and talk honestly about money, I think we could work that out to both our satisfaction. But feeling like he just doesn't care whether we have sex or not...that really hurts.
