have to tell you Sandi that she is not showing me; she is offering me to touch.
This is the perfect opportunity to act as if you do not see her as a sexy female. She is testing you here, okay? So, have an attitude of "Thanks, but I'll pass". Yes you can look at what she showed, but treat her as if you would your cousin. If she knows you are squirming....then she is pleased with herself, but if she sees she has no affect on you, then she begins to wonder what she needs to do to change things.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
