I know, thanks guy! Geronimo that was a nice note and it helped me. I haven't said anything to her since she had her lawyer send mine a letter so I've decided to not discuss anything with her directly if she chooses to go through the lawyers. It's like training Fido!
Here's what she wrote me a few days ago that got under my skin (probably what she intended anyway): So, to make her attend public school that was unacceptable last year and probably more so this year just to get back at me for getting support is unfair to DD. But you do what you think is right.
She's talking about fairness and what's right now? what about when she took me to court to get the max support?! She knows it too that's why she said what she said above. Sure I'm bitter about it but has nothing to do with me trying to use DD as an ammo to get back at her. In fact, I do want DD to go to the private school at least until she's a bit older but the fact is she left me no money and even if I agree to her paying for it not sure how that'll work financially since now there are two households to support on pretty much one salary since she's now making barely over min wage since she can't find work in her field. But speaking of fairness and doing the right thing what about when she single handidly decided to pick up and leave? what about when she decided to become a part-time parent for her own selfish motives? and what about using the law when it suits her?
The really f'd up thing is this morning I saw a cute girl (who goes running at 8AM, don't these people work?) running as I was turning into the parking lot at work and it made me miss her...dammit, I'm so screwed up. OK back to work...
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again